Mental illness, gender, poverty, and the Salvation Army
The following statement was sent to the City of Ottawa's Councillors in regards to the proposed Salvation Army's new shelter to be built here in the Vanier community.
To whom it may concern,
My mother was diagnosed with schizophrenia when I was a pre-teen. She
was a single mom and we often found ourselves in pretty tough
situations. We were also on welfare, facing both financial
difficulties as well as my mom’s struggle with mental illness.
I was born in Arnprior but my mom and I relocated to Ottawa when I
was 8 years old. I’ve grown up in this city and I’ve been
a resident of the downtown core most of my life. I should add that my
wife and I bought a home in Vanier in 2010. So I’m not just a
resident of Ottawa and I’m not just a taxpayer; I’m also
a home owner not that far away from where the Salvation Army proposes
to build their new shelter on Montreal Road.
Relevant to this email is the fact that I’m also in a
documentary film that focuses on the children of mentally ill
parents. Titled “I Am Still Your Child,” the film just
started streaming on CBC and will air nationally across CBC
Television in January. If you’d like, you can watch the film at
the following link:
http://watch.cbc.ca/absolutely-canadian/-/i-am-still-your-child/38e815a-00cec9fd824.
In conjunction with the film, a number of video shorts were recently
released. One of them deals with the financial impact of mental
illness. It’s on the film’s Youtube page at
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GwaYwp3MbqQ.
When I reflect on my childhood, the reality of my mom’s health
and financial situation, and the proposed Salvation Army shelter, I’m
struck by the fact that my mom, being a woman, would have found no
help there. And she, being a mom, would not have been able to get
help for her family, either. Yes, I’m well aware that there are
other shelters in the city that can and do help. At the end of the
day, however, a new shelter will be constructed that will
discriminate based on gender. That is unconscionable in 2017. And it
is a sad, sad statement that if I was a child today, living in the
same circumstances that I grew up in, my mom would not be able to
turn to a brand new state of the art facility for help when she would
have needed it most.
I should add that my mom did not win her struggles with either
schizophrenia or poverty. She died in 1994, at the age of 48.
I would strongly urge you to pause and reflect on what a new shelter
could and should be. A shelter featuring gender equality and one free
of religious dogma. If it was both of those things, even if the
location and the size were the same, I would support it. Because my
mom might have needed it. And we know that other girls and women of
all-ages and sexual orientations will need it. Desperately.
The proposed shelter by the Salvation Army is not the solution. It’s
no solution at all. I urge you to vote against it.
Addendum
What I didn't add, though I was tempted, was the lyrics to Joe Hill's 1911 song The Preacher and the Slave:
Long-haired preachers come out every night
Try to tell you what's wrong and what's right
But when asked how 'bout something to eat
They will answer in voices so sweet
You will eat, bye and bye
In that glorious land above the sky
Work and pray, live on hay
You'll get pie in the sky when you die
And the Starvation Army, they play
And they sing and they clap and they pray
Till they get all your coin on the drum
Then they tell you when you're on the bum
You will eat, bye and bye
In that glorious land above the sky
Work and pray, live on hay
You'll get pie in the sky when you die
Holy Rollers and Jumpers come out
And they holler, they jump and they shout
Give your money to Jesus, they say
He will cure all diseases today
You will eat, bye and bye
In that glorious land above the sky
Work and pray, live on hay
You'll get pie in the sky when you die
If you fight hard for children and wife
Try to get something good in this life
You're a sinner and bad man, they tell
When you die you will sure go to hell.
You will eat, bye and bye
In that glorious land above the sky
Work and pray, live on hay
You'll get pie in the sky when you die
Workingmen of all countries, unite
Side by side we for freedom will fight
When the world and its wealth we have gained
To the grafters we'll sing this refrain
You will eat, bye and bye
When you've learned how to cook and how to fry
Chop some wood, 'twill do you good
Then you'll eat in the sweet bye and bye
Update
And Ottawa city council passed the Salvation Army proposal over the protests of just about everyone.