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Megan Durnford, her film LAST RESPECTS, and the Betty Youson Award for Best Canadian Short Documentary


Megan Durnford with her Betty Youson Award for Best Canadian Short Documentary. Photo by her daughter Charlotte Dunford-Dionne
Megan Durnford (photo courtesy of Charlotte Dunford-Dionne by way of the Westmount Independent

Well, in the category of “better late than never,” I just discovered that Megan Durnford won one helluva an award back in May*. The award is the Betty Youson Award for Best Canadian Short Documentary and is for Megan’s short documentary LAST RESPECTS (more on that in just one sec). As some of you know, Megan is also the writer and director behind I AM STILL YOUR CHILD, a documentary dealing with so-called COPMI (“Children of Parents with Mental Illness”). Yours truly was in that film, dealing with my mom’s diagnosis of schizophrenia and what growing up in that environment was like.

Regrettably, I have not seen LAST RESPECTS as of yet, but the film deals with a part of our culture that is really never talked about, at least publicly. As Megan noted, “What happens to Montrealers who die alone and whose bodies are not ‘claimed’ by loved ones?” As she began doing research, she came across a short article that discussed Father Claude Paradis and his annual ceremony for these forgotten people of Montreal. Rather than have me blather on about it, though, you can read Megan’s own thoughts about the film by reading her essay at https://povmagazine.com/reflections-on-the-making-of-last-respects/. The trailer for the film is on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K8vOsGlC5BQ

The film also led to a really unique collaboration. Megan worked with her son, Hugh Durnford-Dionne, a cinematographer and editor in his own right and the two were able to mesh their skills as they developed the film project. While I’ve only met Hugh briefly, it is really neat that the two of them were able to work together in such a fashion. Not every family could actually complete a journey like that.

As the HOT DOCS — Jury statement notes, “For its human, simple and necessary approach to the universal theme of the dignity and value of every single life that stands out by virtue of its compelling, skilfully crafted visual language as much as its personal story and message.” And Instagram has a snazzy photo of Megan accepting her award!

I would encourage you to seek out the film, as I plan on doing, and also follow along with Megan’s career. And remember: she is not only a filmmaker, but is an author.

Salut, Megan!

* Yes, May, but I only came across the news yesterday courtesy of Westmount Independent, based in the island of Montreal.

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The State of WOLF'S HEAD


2025 UPDATE: Please visit the following link for more details and thoughts about Diamond Comic Distributors. Some of what’s discussed below "elided" certain issues, but this the new post discusses the situation more openly now (and that means I’ll probably revisit the post below with updated information, too): https://www.vonallan.com/2025/01/Diamond-Comic-Distributors-Wolfs-Head-and-Me.html

Teaser image for Wolf's Head on KindleWhew, boy, what a tough couple of months. While there has been some joy (receiving the City of Ottawa grant and being shortlisted for the Peter Honeywell award being the best), for the most part it has been one helluva frustrating slog. I’m going to do my best to outline what the current situation is, mainly to help solidify my own thoughts on what’s gone wrong. Or, to put it another way, what hasn’t?

To put it bluntly, sales are not good. Worse, every attempt I’ve made to mitigate that has failed. In different circumstances, that would be enough to shut the series down. In fact, I have done exactly that in the past (specifically with my previous graphic novel series STARGAZER, ended after two volumes, and with the digital-only series METAL GODS, ended after four issues).

What makes WOLF’S HEAD different from those two? The biggest difference is that WOLF’S HEAD has never reached the Direct Market and, as a result, has been cut off from its largest potential audience: comic book fans. Mixed in with that are the aforementioned awards and grants; these have been especially important in teaching me that WOLF’S HEAD does have merit in certain (local) art circles, but there’s a “circuit break” between that and the larger comics community world-wide.

In fact, one of the biggest examples I could point to in terms of specific my role with in the comics community is the utter lack of media coverage and interest in my work. Not just with WOLF’S HEAD and not just recently; a significant disappointment to me was when the documentary film I’m in (titled I AM STILL YOUR CHILD) received no traction whatsoever with comics media. If the film had been covered, then more people might have been introduced to both me and my work. I had partially launched WOLF’S HEAD with exactly this in mind: maybe my role in the film would help galvanize interest and awareness in the series. Since that didn’t happen, WOLF’S HEAD did not receive the momentum from the film that I hoped it would.



Diamond and the Direct Market

Teaser image of Lauren Greene, the main character from Wolf's Head, on KindleTeaser image of various scenes from Wolf's Head on KindleThis has been difficult for me to place, mainly because getting a direct answer from Diamond Comic Distributors has been so difficult. For those who don’t know, Diamond is the largest distributor of comic books in North America and Great Britain and they also distribute comics and related merchandise throughout the world. Prior to 2020, they were a de facto monopoly in the world of comics; however, with DC Comics breaking from Diamond in early June 2020, the monopoly label is harder to apply. Diamond was also a de facto monopsony; though that, given DC’s departure, is harder to apply, too.

For a small press like Von Allan Studio (that’s me, folks), Diamond plays a critical role in facilitating sales of comics and graphic novels to comic book stores. Fortunately, I have an account in good standing with Diamond; in fact, STARGAZER was distributed into the Direct Market (under Item Numbers NOV101057 and AUG111259) through Diamond a decade ago. Unfortunately, my amazing sales rep departed the company and his replacement has been fairly problematic. This is key: while Diamond never outright rejected WOLF’S HEAD, they’ve never accepted the series, either. In other words, WOLF’S HEAD exists in a sort of limbo for the past few years.

That has been dismaying for a few reasons:
  1. WOLF’S HEAD is a far stronger work than STARGAZER and it remains baffling to me why the latter was accepted for distribution while the former hasn’t been.

  2. “Limbo” also means that WOLF’S HEAD could be accepted for distribution with Diamond tomorrow… or never.

  3. The specific format of the print versions of WOLF’S HEAD was a result of attempting to meet Diamond’s specifications.

    While I don’t want to stray too far into the weeds here, the basic process works like this: once Diamond has agreed to take on a title for distribution, each issue/volume has to maintain a minimum sales threshold or risk cancellation. That threshold is based on total dollars; so selling 1,000 copies of issue 1 of a $2.99 US series results in a total dollar amount of $2,990.00, but selling 600 copies of issue 1 of a $9.99 US series results in $5,994.00! But that requires a print format that justifies the higher cover price. To do just that, I went with a trade paperback trim size and approximately 60 pages of content per issue for WOLF’S HEAD. I felt that this would give the series the best chance of meeting Diamond’s benchmarks while still giving readers a terrific experience.
Now, if Diamond had formally declined distributing WOLF’S HEAD, then I would have went in a very different direction with the print version of the series. Since I was in “limbo,” however, I decided to go ahead with it, hoping that, as the series progressed, Diamond would get on board and distribute the series. Sadly, that has never happened, leaving me with a print format that I’m not particularly happy with.

I did manage to get a few Canadian stores to pick up the series. But a combination of the pandemic (see below) and bad luck have basically ended that experiment. The store that did the best with the series was Librairie Astro in Montreal. Sadly, they closed in the summer of 2018 and I lost one of my biggest advocates. Strange Adventures in Halifax was carrying the series, but has apparently stopped. I say ‘apparently’ because I’m not exactly sure what happened; I suspect the audience simply never developed for the series.

What format would I be happy with? Well, either a saddle-stitched periodical series (i.e.: ye olde 32 page comic) or, better, a beautifully produced hardcover series that collected each story arc.

As it stands, I suspect the next release of WOLF’S HEAD (issue 7) will be the last with this 60 page format.













Comics Media

Teaser image of Sanko the dog and his best friend. Both star in Wolf's Head on KindleTeaser image featuring the first six cover of Wolf's Head on KindleWithout Diamond distributing the series, gaining media attention for WOLF’S HEAD from “comics media” (for lack of a better phrase) has been problematic. Some of this is understandable; a lot of comics media supports the Direct Market and are very plugged into Diamond’s distribution cycle. WOLF’S HEAD lack of distribution with Diamond falls outside of this purview and, as a result, few media outlets have been interested in discussing the series.

What’s been frustrating to me is that WOLF’S HEAD is broadly distributed. Finding the series is not difficult for either readers or retailers, primarily because WOLF’S HEAD has world-wide distribution through Ingram. This also means that the series is easy to find at online at retailers like Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Chapters/Indigo, Waterstones, and so on. However, from the point of view of “comics media,” this isn’t enough. Worse, this lack of distribution from Diamond has also disqualified WOLF’S HEAD from the Joe Shuster Canadian Comic Book Creator Awards (while I’m not positive on this score, I believe that the “Shusters” require distribution through Diamond for eligibility).

More importantly, the lack of media attention has meant that the series is pretty much unknown with the audience I need the most: comic book fans. Especially comic book fans who like independent or alternative comics (or “comix”). It is very hard to grow a series if your key demographic doesn’t know you exist.

Comics Media are also tricky to talk about because there’s a split in what and who receives coverage. More mainstream sites like Comic Book Resources or Bleeding Cool tend to focus on corporate intellectual property. This means titles from Marvel, DC, as well as licensed properties. Sites like The Comics Journal focus on more literary titles. Unfortunately, either due to the lack of distribution from Diamond or other reasons, I’m persona non grata with both. And that’s certainly not for lack of trying on my end.

The knock-on effects of all this is problematic. As a simple example, there is now a great deal of scholarship being conducted on comics with some truly fascinating insights from some remarkable scholars. Unfortunately, comics scholars aren’t, as far as I can tell, aware of my work. Or even aware of me, for that matter. A second example are librarians. Librarians have become key advocates of comics, but I’ve never managed to gain library support for WOLF’S HEAD outside of my own local Public Library. WorldCat certainly illustrates this plainly.

This is disappointing because my work has been in libraries in the past, but without awareness of the series it would be difficult for a librarian to justify the purchase of the series, especially given the times of austerity we’ve been experiencing for the past twelve years.

COVID-19

The pandemic has effected everyone. In the face of the death toll (it boggles my mind that 200,000 people have died in the United States alone and we’re not that far from 1,000,000 dead throughout the world), it’s a bit hard to think of anything else, but there have been knock-on effects for everyone, even those who haven’t directly been hit by the virus itself.

Obviously declining retail sales are a significant example. The effects are more horrifying when you think about food scarcity, layoffs, evictions, and the like. Yes, it could certainly be worse; in fact, I’d argue that one of reasons that COVID-19 has not been as horrific as, say, the 1918-19 Influenza pandemic is that there are still enough social programs by various levels of government to help prevent the situation from spiraling out control. Plus science has a far greater understanding of how pandemics spread than it did back in 1918-19. Still, the official governmental responses has been problematic (really? 200,000 dead in the US?) and we are clearly not out of the woods yet.

Since art tends to be a discretionary purchase, in the face of the global pandemic my print sales have declined. Not that sales were robust before 2020, but the pandemic has destroyed them. While book sales in general slumped when the initial lockdowns occurred, there seems to be some evidence that book sales are now stronger, at least in some markets. Unfortunately, this has not led to any sales growth for WOLF’S HEAD or any of my other backlist, though this is not surprising given what I’ve outlined above.

Digital Comics

Teaser image of Wolf's Head issue 6 on KindleTeaser image of Wolf's Head issue 17 on KindleWhat about digital sales? WOLF’S HEAD is available on both ComiXology and Kindle and released in periodical format (i.e.: approximately 30 pages) for $1.99 US each. This format has not led to strong sales. In fact, sales have been very weak. Kindle is almost a non-starter; while it doesn’t take too much work to format titles for Kindle (using the Kindle Comic Creator software), I’ve only had a handful of sales in this format. My ComiXology sales have been marginally better, but ComiXology (and Kindle, for that matter) really require reader awareness and interest when seeking out titles. What do I mean?

Well, there’s a conundrum with digital discovery that I don’t think has been solved yet. In a ‘brick and mortar’ environment, people can stumble across titles that they might not have known about simply because they are on a shelf, let alone activism from a passionate sales staff. While COVID-19 has obviously effected the ability of people to enter into retail stores of all types, this is still a key element of what makes ‘brick and mortar’ stores so compelling. Wander in, stumble across something interesting, buy it, and try it. With digital comics, it would appear that you really need to know what you’re looking for. I realize that digital does allow some degree of browsing, but (at least from my point of view and experience), this doesn’t seem to work all that well in practice.

As a result, my digital sales have been very poor. What I find interesting about this is that my 2020 experiences with Kindle and ComiXology mirror my 2014 experiences with ComiXology and my series METAL GODS. Things really haven’t changed all that much at all.

Where Things Are At

As disappointing as this has been, the good news is that the comics art grant from the City of Ottawa has helped mitigate some of the damage detailed above. In fact, if it was not for the art grant and the Peter Honeywell award shortlist, I suspect I would cancel WOLF’S HEAD immediately. As it stands, WOLF’S HEAD will continue, at least through the current story arc, and then I’ll revisit in 2021.

Self-publishing is hard. Frankly, I’ve never wanted to do it, not because I’m against self-publishing per se, but because of the immense amount of work involved in doing it. Hell, I already wear all the hats (writing, art, production, etc…). Adding “publisher” to that list is a bridge too far. I badly need a publisher. I badly need an agent, too.

With WOLF’S HEAD, it’s hard to know how things will go. My efforts to find a publisher for the series will continue, though that is one helluva slog right now (my jealousy of authors with formal publishing contracts knows no bounds!). For the short term, this means that WOLF’S HEAD will probably be turned into a webcomic.

Webcomics actually terrify me. While once-upon-a-time I did do a webcomic through Girlamatic (THE ROAD TO GOD KNOWS...), that was both a long time ago and with a group of allies. Doing it alone is scary. And WOLF’S HEAD was never designed to be a webcomic; I’m leery of how transitioning the series to that format will work in practice. At the same time, I know that a WOLF’S HEAD webcomic might be the best (only?) chance that the series has to find a real audience.

To paraphrase one of my favourite movies, “art is a cruel mistress, but she is her own reward.” Easier said then done. I don’t like writing and drawing in a vacuum. While I’ve never minded the solitary nature of the craft, my stories are meant to be read. I’ve never wanted to make ‘outsider art’ that few if anyone reads. My goal was never to ‘hermetically seal’ my work from the world at large, either.

It’s not a fun feeling to be where I’m at, struggling to find an audience and struggling to make a living at it. Solutions are difficult to find. And the loss I’ve been feeling is difficult to place. Given the state of the world (not just with COVID-19 but with the wildfires in California and Oregon, the explosion in Beirut, and so on), there’s a lot to be thankful for. There really is. Art and writing bring me a great deal of joy, not to mention the fact that I’ve grown a great deal as an artist.

I’m extremely proud of WOLF’S HEAD, despite the terrible sales and lack of awareness that it even exists. I think it’s some of the best work I’ve ever done. And it’s been a joyful experience, too.

It would just be truly awesome to be able to share that joy with readers.

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City of Ottawa Grant Support


Cover of the City of Ottawa 2022 Grant Funding ReportIn a surprise (well, at least to me!) turn of events, I’ve received a $4,000.00 grant from the City of Ottawa’s Arts Funding Program (the PDF announcement from the City is here). The grant is in support of my ongoing comics project WOLF’S HEAD and represents a significant step in my arts career. Why significant? Well, bear with me here for a sec and I’ll try to explain.

As I’ve struggled to cobble together an arts career, there have been a number of obstacles that I’ve had to overcome. This is not unique to me, unique to Canadian comic artists, unique to visual artists, or unique to the arts in general. Despite certain stereotypes of artists (“heads in the clouds,” blah, blah, blah), it’s quite a tricky career to manage. There is not a lot of support “out there” for artists, either. Most artists I know are forced to manage their careers as best they can and there really isn’t a road map to help along the way. That’s been very true for me. While a lot of words come to mind to describe this — ‘challenging’ being a very good one — it just is what it is. And there is a certain truism to the notion that by the time acknowledgement does come (usually in the form of awards, accolades, and sales), the artist doesn’t need as much support as they once did. That’s definitely not true of me.



Let me say that again: That’s definitely not true of me.



It’s been a fight every step of the way. The first fight was simply to become competent and that might have been the toughest battle of them all. The learning curve, at least for me, has been extremely steep with a lot of false starts and dashed hopes along the way. Then, the next fight is to survive. Truth be told, that’s been tough, too. Being pretty much a fringe artist at the best of times and a true Outsider most of the time meant that building awareness for my work has been a never-ending struggle. Pragmatically speaking, surviving as an artist means generating an income. In my case specifically, that primarily means selling my comics. And that has never been easy.



Wolf's Head Book 1 cover by Von AllanAs some folks know, I really had hopes that I AM STILL YOUR CHILD, the documentary film I’m in, would help build awareness for my art. That really hasn’t happened, at least so far, and the disappointment was hard to place. That doesn’t mean I’m not proud of my role in the film. Far from it! And I still think the film is important for shedding light on parental mental illness, a taboo subject to this day.

That said, as my wife is fond of saying, the film was ‘kindling’ for my arts career and represented a milestone in its own right. While it hasn’t changed awareness of my work in the larger comics community, it has led to growing awareness in the local arts scene. I’m pretty sure that I wouldn’t have been a finalist for the Peter Honeywell Award without it. And I certainly wouldn’t have won a CBC Trailblazer Award without it, too.



And with today’s announcement of winning a grant from the City of Ottawa, I’m pretty confident saying that it wouldn’t have happened without the film and the other awards. One thing does lead to another. And the grant is important from another point of view; it really does give some much needed financial support for my comics endeavours. As I’ve noted, being an artist is not an easy path and every little bit of financial support helps. When a jury of my peers determined that my application was worthy of financial support, my jaw dropped. And it’s taken a bit of time for me to really get my head around it. I’m both honoured and pleased as punch to receive it. And in these pandemic times we live in, it is one helluva lift.



So yes, Von Allan Studio (that’s me, folks!) gratefully acknowledges the financial support of the City of Ottawa. Boy, do I!



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Recent Podcast Interviews with Von Allan


I've recently been a guest on three different podcasts chatting about comics, art, COVID-19, and mental illness. In no particular order, here goes:

I was interviewed by Tim Midura and Kyle Welch on their Pages and Panels Podcast. This is a wide-ranging discussion of comics, my ongoing series WOLF'S HEAD, the situation at Diamond Comic Distributors, the documentary film I AM STILL YOUR CHILD, and on and on! I really enjoyed this one and I think you will, too. The interview can be found at https://pagesandpanels.squarespace.com/blog/2020/6/12/pages-and-panels-vol-2-23-von-allen-and-wolfs-head or downloaded directly as a MP3 right here (just right click to download).

Not to be outdone, I was also interviewed on the Out of the Basement podcast. Out of the Basement is a local podcast from here in Ottawa, but with social distancing due to COVID-19, it was handled remotely. This chat ranges from comics to D&D and was a lot of fun. This interview can be found at https://outofthebasement.ca/pod/ootb/out-of-the-basement-podcast-episode-91/ or downloaded directly as a MP3 here (again, just right click to download).

Lastly, the always lovely Kevin Midbo had me on to chat about the early stages of COVID-19 and how it was effecting folks in my neighbourhood here in Ottawa. Kevin is great and the discussion, while short, was terrific. It can be found at https://www.vancouverislandmentalhealthsociety.org/artist-and-comics-creator-von-allan-on-life-during-covid-19/ or downloaded directly as a MP3 right over here.

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Panel Discussion from 2018 Low-Beer Memorial Lecture


2018 Edith and John Hans Low-Beer Memorial Lecture photo On September 27, 2018, I was part of a panel discussion during the 2018 Low-Beer Memorial Lecture that followed a screening of the documentary film "I Am Still Your Child." The film and panel discussion were presented by AMI Quebec (Action on Mental Illness) and was held at Concordia University's Oscar Peterson Concert Hall in Montreal. It was a pretty amazing evening!

The panel discussion was moderated by the always awesome Loreen Pindera from CBC Montreal and featured Megan Durnford (the film's writer and director), Rebecca Heinisch, Marie Leavens, and myself. AMI Quebec's Dr. Ella Amir added closing comments. It took a little while, but I'm very pleased to announce that the audio recording of the panel discussion from the panel discussion is now available! Yeah!

The MP3 can be played directly in your browser at http://vonallan.com/Audio/Low-Beer-Memorial-Lecture-September-27-2018.mp3. You can also directly download the MP3 by right clicking on the link and choosing "save as" (or whatever is appropriate in your browser).

It can also be played in the audio player below:


Oh, and some additional photos from the events can be found right here.

Lightly Edited Transcript

Loreen Pindera: Introduce yourself.



Megan Durnford: I’m Megan, the writer and director of the film [“I Am Still Your Child”].



Marie Leavens: I’m Marie Levens. I’m Sarah’s mother.



Rebecca Heinisch: Hi, my name is Rebecca Heinisch. I’ve been working with children who have parents suffering from mental illness for the past, I would say, 14 years. I wrote a children’s book to help children better understand what is going on in their families when the parent is ill. And I’ve also, with my husband, founded a non-profit organization and we run programs for these children. And they’re for children between the ages — the program’s between the ages of 7 and 17.



Loreen Pindera: And Marie would like to say something about that program.



Marie Leavens: Sarah is actually part of that program when she was 8 years old and it really, really helped her.



Rebecca Heinisch: Thank you.



Loreen Pindera: I have… I think you can hold off on the applause till the end now. Or we’re going to get really tired.



It’s the third time I’ve watched the film now in the last few days. And what I notice is every single time I take something different away from it that I didn’t notice the first time. And then I thought “oh look, there’s these things that are…” some of that is just the fantastic editing job I think, Megan. But one of the things, I actually pulled out a pen and jotted down this time one of your lines, Von, which was, “I was trying to go to school. I was trying to live my life.” And I thought, “what a challenge that must have been.” And I thought maybe we could just start by you talking about how you managed to juggle school, work, friends, and caring for a parent, at the same time.



Von Allan: I’m not great with these things, so bear with me. You know, the thing is it’s not like there’s a blueprint for anything. You’re in it and things are happening. And then you’re reacting to what’s happening. So I think if I had known some of what was eventually going to happen with my mom, that might have made my childhood and teenage years a lot harder. But it was tough.



It’s very hard to be — for me — being in a public school. It was never a particularly safe environment. And I never particularly had — you know, you hear stories of the fantastic mentor-teacher that you can really bond with. I never had anything like that and I was bullied and picked on and what have you, as well. It helped being tall early. That aided me a little bit. I hit the height I am now at about 13, so that kind of helped. But for the most part, I kept my head down. And I tried to get through the day and just get through my school time as much as I could.



And I was lucky in some ways; while I’m not close to my father at all, my dad also lived in Ottawa. My mom and dad got split up very young, when I was very young. And it meant that there was somebody I could go to during the times my mom was hospitalized or in deep crisis. And it’s unfortunate; my relationship with him sort of fell apart in my early 20s. I haven’t seen him since 1998. So, yeah, it’s been a long time. But I’d be lying if I said he actually wasn’t there for me. He was. And he did what he could.



So a lot of it is just, “it sucks.” It’s hard to go through this. And it’s hard because you don’t know how anything is gonna play out. You don’t know what the other end looks like. You have no idea of what the future will bring. And you just muddle through. And that’s basically how I view most of my childhood and teenage years, is I just “muddled through” as best I could.



Loreen Pindera: I’m gonna turn to you now, Marie. I saw in all three of the protagonists in this film some incredible strength of character. And also the challenges. You, Megan, put the stat up very early on that 30 to 50 percent, I think, of people who have parents who have a mental illness can come into a mental illness themselves. So that’s been… that is clearly a struggle for Sarah throughout. And we have a little hint of that, that she’s not going to school that you homeschooled her. Do you want to share a little bit of that story?



Marie Leavens: Well, when Sarah was in kindergarten, she missed a third of the year because of a different illness. She had a surgery and stuff. And by the end of the year, you know — well, because we read a lot at home — while the other kids at school were able to put two, three words together, my daughter was able to read entire books in English without help, and in French with a little bit of help. So we’re like, “what’s she gonna do in grade one?”



My husband already couldn’t work at that time. For various reasons, but mainly his mental illness. So he’s like, “well, I might as well, you know, let’s do the homeschooling routine.” And we’re sure glad we did. She performed really well.



And then in 2015, my eldest son passed away. And that really had a big impact on Sarah. And according to psychologists that we saw, if she had been in school, she might have fell in a crack. So it was a good thing she was home. This year, she’s back at school. She’s at adult ed, because she’d like to have a diploma. But as you saw in the movie, she mentioned she had anxiety, and so it’s been really tough on her. Especially math, causing her a lot of anxiety, which is why she couldn’t be here tonight. Her anxiety was too strong. She just couldn’t get out of her room. But on the whole, she’s still very strong. She has her days like anyone else, but she’s still very strong. And we finally just managed to get her some counselling.



Loreen Pindera: That, I’m sure, is a whole other chapter that would take us in another direction. Focusing on the issue tonight of carers, Sarah — because she was home with her dad a lot — took on this role of carer along with you too. Do you want to talk about how that affected her?



Marie Leavens: Yeah. Well, especially at the beginning, because I was the breadwinner, so I was out of the house up until the end of 2012, I was out of the house. So her dad was taking care of her, but then he got sick around, oh my gosh, 2007, roughly. And so Sarah was taking care of him. He couldn’t bend down to do things, because he’s physically ill as well as mentally ill. So, yeah, she had to, on a very early age, you know, “Sarah, can you do that?” “Sarah,” all the time. And then he had his episodes once in a while. So she’d just hide in her room, and I’d come home at night, and you know, she’d be crying.



Finally, by the end of 2012, my husband couldn’t be left alone, so I came home with her. But many times we heard her say — not many times, but a couple of times — we heard her say, you know, “I can’t ever leave my parents, because they both need me.” Because, of course, with the mental illness, I also had depression. So there’s been a time where she’s been picking me up, as well. So it’s been tough on her. But eventually, my husband and I convinced her that she has to have her life. So I’m glad to say that she’s looking forward to that.



Loreen Pindera: How old is Sarah now?



Marie Leavens: She’s going to be 18 in a few weeks.



Loreen Pindera: I want to turn to you now, Megan, if I can. Just talk about what drew you to make this film. Why did you feel it was an important subject to tackle?



Megan Durnford: Well, the way that came about is quite a complicated story, but I’ll just sum it up. I have a friend who organizes TEDx youth talks in Montreal. So she’s always looking for speakers. And at one point she invited me to go hear the story of a young woman in St. Jerome. And this woman was going to talk about what it was like to grow up — everything was quite fine. And then, suddenly, her mother went into a depression when she was 14. And so she was going to talk about the next 10 years, what happened after that, how they both came out the other end. So I went and I heard this young woman, and then my friend said, “well, do you think this could be an interesting topic for a documentary?” And I said, “well, I certainly don’t know now. I have to do so much more research. I have to see is this a typical story? What is the incidence? What’s the international context? What are the resources?” But then as I started to look into all these other issues, I realized,

“my goodness, it’s an extremely common situation that isn’t especially well known. And there are potentially very serious long-term repercussions for all of these children and teenagers.” And so I realized, “yes, there is absolutely a potential to make a documentary, and absolutely there is a need to raise public awareness about this.”



Loreen Pindera: Do you want to tell us a little bit about the process? How did you find your amazing protagonists?



Megan Durnford: That took a long time. That took a long time. Well, the first step was I had to pitch a project to a producer. So I pitched it to Katarina at Catbird Productions. And she was able to pull together money for research and development. So then I was travelling in different parts of Quebec and meeting families who were living with this situation. And you can imagine each situation was so different, right, depending on the age of the child when this happened. I mean, in many cases the child grew up from babyhood on with the parent already suffering from mental illness. In many cases it sort of happened suddenly. Huge range of different disorders. And then I was sort of looking for commonalities in the young people’s experience. I would say the hardest part of all, though, was not finding people to tell me their stories. The hardest part was to have someone agree to be filmed while telling me their story. So, yes, so thankfully, Jesse, Sarah, and Von agreed to participate and I think really they realized that — although it was, of course, going to be difficult for them to do that — they realized that they could help other people through telling their stories.



Loreen Pindera: That’s a good segue to pass the mic back over to Von, perhaps, and ask you that question. Why did you agree to put yourself out there like this?



Von Allan: Well, Megan and I first started talking, it was a while before — it was a slow developing process, with me sort of constantly thinking, “this thing isn’t going to happen. It’s going to fall through.” But it didn’t. And, well, no, obviously, I mean, who knows how it was going to play out. But I felt I had the advantage, I think, of having… my mom died in 1994. So there’s been a certain amount of time that’s gone past with that. And I felt getting involved in the film was for some very similar reasons for why I wanted to do the graphic novel [“the road to god knows…”]. I thought it was an interesting story. I thought in many ways that what happened to my mom — and I still think what happened to my mom — isn’t fair. And I think that talking about that helps. It doesn’t solve anything, but getting some of those experiences out there can’t hurt. And there is — and I’m sure everybody here knows this — but there’s still a lot of stigma, still a lot of stereotypes with it. So anything you can do to sort of punch through that is great.



Really, the best thing I can use as an example for how things have changed is I said earlier my school life wasn’t great — and it wasn’t — but I had the opportunity this past May to go back to my junior high school — Glashan [Public School] — and they were doing something which would have been unthinkable when I was a kid is they actually had, for grade eights, a mental health week. And they had a mental health symposium and they had all kinds of different guests and public health advocates and what have you. It was really neat. And they invited me. And it was weird to go back into that school that certainly was not a happy fun place for me, but talking very openly, very similar to what’s in the film and what have you — and I’m pretty open when anybody talks to me anyway — it was really neat to talk to kids that were 12, I guess, grade eight, and then have, at the end, some of them even share some of the stuff they’re going through. And that, again, would have been unfathomable when I was a kid.



Loreen Pindera: Of course, one of the purposes of AMI-Quebec’s existence is to network and make some of these connections and to find ways to provide some of these resources. So maybe you could just talk about what you were missing as a kid. What might have helped?



Von Allan: Money!



Loreen Pindera: Okay, start with that.



Von Allan: Well, because it’s still the thing that poverty made harder. And the courage my mom must have had — I’m only more aware of now as an adult — to navigate Ontario — we were in Ontario — so to navigate Ontario’s social services system when she was at her worst. And, we were on welfare. So there was a constant battle of “there’s not enough money, how are we going to make rent? Where’s food going to come from?” She went to food banks. She got help and aid anywhere she can, any way she could have. And I don’t know how she did it. And she shielded me a lot from it. So I only became vaguely aware — more when I was getting into my teenage years — about what she was doing. And it was just… it was brutal. And that was under — to be political — that was under Bob Rae’s NDP government in Ontario. And she died the same year, I think, that Mike Harris’ conservative government came into power. And at that point in Ontario, welfare, social services, mental health, took a massive hit. And I don’t know how my mom would have handled that. She was already holding on barely at that time. And there would have been a massive reduction in what meagre income she was getting into the later part of the 90s.



So first and foremost, it’s not that money cures everything, but it can take some of the pressure off, the pressure of how you’re going to make rent, the pressure of how you’re going to feed this kid. Or this kid needs clothes for school, this kid needs some various support. And I know — particularly as an adult, because we all go through this — but looking back on it, the anxiety that must have been terrifying to deal with, on top of everything else. And then the rest of it is certainly a better, a more easily navigatable social services system. My mom bounced around. So, there was — to this day, I think — that the one big thing she was missing was an advocate. Somebody that could have spoken for her, particularly when she was going through — again, at her worst — to get help, to have somebody there who could represent her.



And, on a personal note — it’s already a personal note, but on a more personal note — my wife has gone through five physical surgeries now. So, she’s fine mentally, but she has gone through a lot. And I’ve been able to go with her. And it’s hard. It’s been interesting to watch her talk to her surgeon or various physicians and what have you. And, you know, be anxious, to be sort of struggling and to be like, “well, you’re going to go into surgery and we’re going to do some stuff.” And it’s been nice to — for the most part, keep my mouth shut — but then to be able to go, “oh, you wanted to ask about this.” Or, “can we talk about this?” To have somebody as a third person — and I love her — but to have somebody as a third person being able to help navigate the system. My mom had nothing. And, wow.



Loreen Pindera: To what extent, I want to hear from everybody else too, but while we’re on this track, to what extent, Von, did you play that role as advocate as a kid?



Von Allan: Not as much. I’d be lying if I said otherwise. And I think it’s twofold. One, a lot of it is I was really young. And then secondly, I think my mom really did try to shield me from it. And that broke down as I got into my teenage years. So she got more open as I got older about what she was going through, but I think her ability to shield me from it also deteriorated. But it wasn’t like I was going to into psychiatric wards with her, except to visit her. And she had a psychiatrist that she was seeing. And I mean, I would sometimes go with her and wait in the lobby, but that’s it. It wasn’t like I was going into the room with my mom.



So really, at the end of the day, my mom — she was still on her own. So I could help at home. I could take some of the pressure off at home. I could clean. I could do certain things. But it was still tough. And in some ways I wish I could have done more. But I think the film — it says it in the film pretty well. “At what point do you stop living your life?” And I was 18 and 19 just at the very end. My mom died when I was 20. So my life might have been very, very different.



Loreen Pindera: I’m going to take the mic away from you and pass it over to Marie and ask some of the same questions, from the context of Quebec, about the resources that you could have used for Sarah that maybe weren’t there to start with.



Marie Leavens: Well, I think we’ve been very blessed as a family here because I have a big mouth, so I’m able to barge through stuff. And I have learned very early that I had to, you know, when I go to a doctor, it’s like, “yeah, she needs this, she needs that.” But sometimes it’s very difficult. Sarah is finally going to get help from the Jewish hospital for her anxiety disorder. They refused to have her diagnosed, to diagnose her earlier. They refused to try to diagnose her earlier. They just diagnosed her with ADHD. She was too young, apparently, to be diagnosed for bipolar disorder. Today we’re finally getting somewhere. We met with a psycho-educator just this past week. It’s been four or five years now that I’ve been trying to fight my way there. Especially since 2015 when my son died, it really hit hard on Sarah because he was like her second dad. She’s been seeing a psychotherapist for two years now, but she can only see her once a month because I can’t afford more. And, you know, when she went to the CLSC for counselling, first of all, it was all in French. Yes, I am French, but my daughter is a lot more comfortable in English than in French. And the psychotherapist refused to acknowledge her faith as something to help her. So Sarah was feeling really bad about that because her faith — as you’ve seen — she’s very connected with the church, with the youth especially at the church. And it’s really helping her. These kids have really been supporting her throughout everything, although they don’t understand everything. But just the fact that they’ve been praying for her, being there when she was crying, you know, it’s really been tremendous for Sarah, that network.



Loreen Pindera: I want to come back to that, Marie, and I’m not forgetting about you, Rebecca. But, Megan, maybe you could talk about why that was so critical to include in the film. Because the church scene and… what were you trying to show there?



Megan Durnford: Well, in fact, that was absolutely essential because that is a huge part of Sarah’s story. Because I spent quite a bit of time with Sarah and Marie and Andy. And I could see that even though Sarah hadn’t really found a lot of help through the social services yet. They were waiting and now, finally, success. They had, well, a lot of really strong emotional bonds within the family. But I could also see that the church was a very important source of support for Sarah. So it was essential to include the scene because that is part of what was helping Sarah deal with the situation that she was in.



Loreen Pindera: There’s also her friendship with Helena. Helena, is that…



Megan Durnford: Marlena.



Loreen Pindera: Marlena, sorry. Yes. And I guess it’s the same thing in terms of community and friendship.



Megan Durnford: Right. And as she says in the film, she says that, of course, obviously they’re teenagers. They have a lot of fun just goofing off. But both of them can relate to each other on a very deep and serious level about anxiety and other mental health issues. So I could sense that right away and hopefully you can from the film that they’re very tight.



Loreen Pindera: Von, maybe I could ask you the question about friendships and whether, you know, how isolated were you as a kid? Were there people you could talk to? What other resources did you draw on to become so grounded as you are today?



Von Allan: [Laughter] Well, I don’t know about the last part, but I did have a small collection of really good friends, some of which I’m still friends with to this day.



But. I was pretty embarrassed about how I lived. I knew we were poor and I knew our place was pretty crappy. And I was pretty shy and — I don’t know if I would use embarrassed, but it’s probably the best word for it is — talking when you’re 12 or 13 with other friends about my mom’s situation was just a non-starter. So I didn’t do it. And I can only look back and go, “yeah, I probably was more isolated than I realized.” But at the same time, I don’t think one can overstate the ability to just go hang out with friends and not have to stress about this stuff and not have to think about it. And that, I think, in hindsight, helped me far more than I ever realized. You know, I was a geek so I like comics, I like sci-fi, and I like role-playing games, and being able to go do that on a Saturday afternoon or after school or something like that was probably far healthier than I ever realized.



Loreen Pindera: Would it have been helpful if someone had said to you, “there’s a group of other young people whose mothers are schizophrenic, would you like to go talk?” Would you have even done it?



Von Allan: I really don’t know about that. I really don’t. I get asked this sometimes, “what if there was a great teacher? What if…” When I did the presentation at the junior high, at the end one of the [sessions], teachers were like, “well, where do you suggest somebody in your situation go?” And I’m like, “Kids Help Phone? I don’t know!” This is not easy things to deal with. And it really depends on the kid. It’s going to depend very much on who you are rather than having the right… So yes, obviously more things out there, more supports, more public supports, more obvious supports, but different… there will be different solutions or maybe no quote-unquote “solution” at all for kids. And I don’t think, when I look back at how I was when I was 12 and 13, that I would have even been comfortable broaching the subject, particularly to strangers, even if I knew they were going through something similar to me.



Loreen Pindera: Okay. Did you want to say something, Megan? Yeah, okay. I’ll pass that back to you again, Marie, just to talk about does Sarah participate in such an organization? Would it be helpful for her or…?



Marie Leavens: Well, like I said, Sarah has done the Anna workshop and that has really been a big, big help. There she’s learned how to relax when there’s a crisis in the house and how to cope with it. But the other thing that Sarah’s had an advantage with is because of our church, because of the co-op where she was going, though the people there were like a big family. There’s no judgment. There was nothing. So she was always able to speak freely.



It took a while because when she was very young, my husband was very upset when I would talk about this. And one day I said, “listen, Andy, I’m the kind of person I can’t keep things in. To cope with it, I have to talk it over. I have to share with my friends. For them to pray with me and try to understand what I’m going through. So if you don’t let me speak about it, then I’m going to end up with having a problem myself.” Finally he said, “okay.” And after that, he found it freeing for himself to be able to talk about it. Because everyone at our church — we’ve been there since Sarah was born — before Sarah was born. So we’re well-known and well-grounded. And everybody knows about these issues. So whenever, even if he’s at church and he flips, nobody is surprised. There’s support. There’s a network. So because of that, Sarah knew she could open up very early. So that’s always been, I think, a great thing for her.



Loreen Pindera: I’m going to ask you to pass the mic over to Rebecca now. And maybe I could get you to start by telling us — it’s 14 years now since the book came out.



Rebecca Heinisch: Correct.



Loreen Pindera: Tell us what led you to write the book in the first place.



Rebecca Heinisch: Well, there are two things. One of the things is personal experience. Direct personal experience. I was raised in a family where mental illness was present. In my case, it was my mother who was suffering from mental illness and from a very young age, from the time that I was born. And I can relate to many of the things that Von said, that Sarah has said, that Jessie said also, about having to live that situation, but in silence — being isolated. In our family, it was never ever addressed. Mental illness was not addressed, despite the fact that there were many hospitalizations, many suicide attempts, and so on. And just the fact that it was not addressed, that it was so taboo, really impacted me. And I felt that there was nothing around — being very isolated — there was nothing around to help. And so, I just kind of had to, as Von said, keep my head down, push forward, go on autopilot, and just move on and cope with the unpredictability, the fact that everything is very unsettling. And as Sarah said, life is like a roller coaster, very much like a roller coaster.



So, having lived the experience myself as a child and growing up and becoming an adolescent and really having no one to speak with, I realized that there needed to be resources for children to help them understand, “well, what’s going on in my family? Why is my parent acting like this? What can I do? And is it normal that I have all these conflicting feelings? Is it normal that I want to help so much? Is it normal that I feel angry?”



Also, I drew on experience as a teacher because I was working in the elementary schools and it’s such a prevalent issue. It was not rare in a class of maybe 20, 25 kids to find six of them or seven of them who were living with a parent having mental illness. And I was seeing these children in class being totally dysfunctional on the social level, on the academic level, and yet they were totally isolated, also. And this really shook me to the core. I could relate to them, I felt for them, and I just felt — even as a teacher, we didn’t have the tools, as a teacher. The schools didn’t have the tools to help these children — and so I felt compelled and called to write a book and help bring awareness to the fact that many, many children are in this situation.



Loreen Pindera: So, “Anna and the Sea,” maybe you can tell us why it’s called “Anna and the Sea.”



Rebecca Heinisch: Well, the protagonist’s name is Anna, and she is a young girl. Her mother suffers from mental illness. And the setting is in a village by the sea. And Anna finds comfort through two different characters who come from the sea. A crab named Gustave and a turtle named Tremender. And they are actually very therapeutic. They’re like counsellors for Anna. And in meeting with these characters she’s able to voice her questions and realize that her feelings are normal. And also she receives several tips, help about self-nurturing and also validation that it’s okay for her to want to invest in her own life.



And this is an issue that’s very critical for children growing up with a parent who’s mentally ill. Because to separate from your parent brings on feelings of great guilt because you feel like you’re abandoning them. So in the book she is given the permission through this very important creature, the crab, given the permission to be a child, to have her feelings and become and develop and become all that she can be.



Loreen Pindera: So you have, it’s gone from a book to a resource that’s being, we were discussing earlier, widely used. In fact, I discovered in my web search today that they’re crazy about this book in Australia! So maybe you can tell us the short version of how it got where it is and how it’s being used today. How the book and the resource workbook are being used.



Rebecca Heinisch: Well, I can just sum it up in one word. It’s snowballed. And never in my wildest dreams did I ever think that it would grow and become a resource and a non-profit organization. I just wanted to start with a book, something that could help address the issue. And there was a great response from the mental health practitioners who began requesting, “well, the book is wonderful, but do you have any educational activities? Can you go further? Is there anything else out there?” And I thought, “well, maybe there could be.”



So I took sabbatical leave from teaching and I began a pilot project with some children and began creating activities — educational activities — and then presented them to practitioners and they felt it was a worthwhile endeavour. And so we received funding from the Alcoa Foundation to produce the first program, which is the Anna Workshops. And we began promoting the workshops all throughout Quebec. We’ve trained practitioners in 29 cities. But what we did was we set up in Trois-Rivières the organization where we began intervening and creating other programs, programs for adolescents, and a very important program, which we set up quite early, which is the Navigators. It’s a respite program.



Because — Von, if I can just bounce off something that you said earlier, if it’s okay with you — you said the power of getting together with friends and just hanging out and doing things, the power of getting together. So through one of the programs we created, we allow the children to hang out, but to do activities. We bring them horseback riding, fishing, to museums, and these activities go on all throughout the year. And this is a very, very important part of the resources that we offer, because the kids need to get out of the house. And they need to get out, they need to be together, and they need to have fun. It’s the power of pleasure. And it’s a very long process for a child growing up with someone who’s mentally ill to realize that they are allowed to experience pleasure.



Loreen Pindera: Thank you very much. Marie, maybe you could talk a little bit about Sarah’s experience with the program.



Marie Leavens: Yeah. Well, like I said, she’s learned to really relax in crisis and that kind of stuff. But she also has done the respites. And you know, like Von talked about poverty; because of my husband’s mental illness, because he didn’t take care of himself, now he’s physically ill, so I had to leave my full-time job, take care of him full-time as well. So we live on welfare. Because when you have a husband who’s bipolar, you don’t have a lot of savings. It’s almost a taboo word in our home.



So, because of that, we could never offer Sarah activities like that. And through Alpabem — which is similar to AMI-Quebec in Laval, where we live — Sarah’s been able to do climbing. She’s been able to go to some museums, all kinds of activities like that. Some workshops, like bead workshops. And she would come home beaming. Because, you know, it was something that she could never have dreamed. And for that little bit of time, she was a kid. We talked about relationship earlier. And that’s one thing for Sarah that’s always been very difficult. She never had friends around our home. The few times she had friends, she was bullied. She was not… She was never happy there. So that’s why we kept in contact with the youth church, because there she was never judged. Same with the homeschool co-op. Those are the place where those were her havens. But having this time where she could just do something very special. Something that she could come back to co-op to her friends at church. “Guess what I did this week? I went rock climbing!” And, you know, she could hear the others talk about that. But she could never even dream of it. So for her, that was really big.



Loreen Pindera: I think we have to wrap up quite soon. But I want to touch on a couple of other things. Von, just having heard what you heard there. I know we’re talking a quarter of a century later, but do you think some of those resources would have made a difference?



Von Allan: Maybe. It would have been helpful to know that something like that was out there. I think that’s probably about as far as I could go with it, because I have no idea. I mean, I was… I cannot over-emphasize how shy I was as a kid. And a lot of things changed as I got older. But I was really, really introverted when I was young. To feel safe in an environment where you could actually open up? That’s tough. But to be able to get away from it and to be able to just not even have to think about it and do other things. That was huge. And because we didn’t have a lot of money, one nice thing — it’s changed a little bit now, but particularly then — was comics were cheap. Role-playing games were pretty cheap. And because of the nature of the game itself, you could just play it basically forever. You don’t need a lot of stuff aside from paper and pencils and dice. So we could tell stories. We could do goofy things. And that — particularly for low income [families] — that really — more so than I probably ever realized — really helped me through. And libraries helped and stuff like that too.



Loreen Pindera: I want to… when we first met this evening, I said to you, “wow, it’s so interesting that all three of the protagonists in this film are such creative people.” Do you play the guitar too, by the way?



Von Allan: No! Not a musical bone in my body!



Loreen Pindera: And you said to me, “and there’s the dog theme,” which I didn’t notice until the third time. But maybe you might… you clearly feel great affection for your dog, or you wouldn’t carry him around. Maybe you could just talk about that — and maybe Megan wants to talk about it, too — but how the… and I’ll see if you want to say something about that too Marie, but I think it was worth touching on because clearly the dog was important and is important in everybody’s lives.



Von Allan: Dogs are amazing. I’m a huge believer in cats and dogs. I’ve had multiple in my life. And they are always in the moment, they are… there’s unrequited love. They are who they are, and they are amazing characters. Corbin, my dog, still my dog now, is a rescue husky from Iqaluit who does not like to walk. [Megan] didn’t believe me, and was like “no, let’s get some shots of you walking your dog in the film.” And I was like, “this is not going to go well.” And it didn’t. He walked for a bit, and then — he just he does not love leaving the house.

And it’s also been interesting to watch a dog who has also gone through some trauma. He is a perfectly happy, healthy dog, but he doesn’t like leaving the house at all. So, yeah, dogs. Amazing!



Loreen Pindera: I wonder if your choice of a dog who’s gone through trauma has something to do with your childhood. I’m not going too far here.



Von Allan: I like rescues, so it was probably more dumb luck. Our previous husky who died, Rowen, she was also a rescue, but was much more of what you think of as a husky, which is “you point them in a direction and you walk forever.” That dog would walk all over the place. So we’ll never know exactly what Corbin’s mix is.

He’s a husky mix of some sort, but he bonded to us. He bonded to his home, and that’s magic for him.



Loreen Pindera: I think that I’ve gone through my question list here, and it’s probably… you probably have your own, and I think we’ll have a little time afterwards to have one-on-one conversations. Is there anything else that anyone would like to say before I wrap? That perhaps I haven’t… go ahead.



Marie Leavens: Yeah. You’re talking about the dog. In our home, Drake is called the “Dog-ter.” Because he really, really, really helps my husband. It’s amazing, amazing how much he points us like a lot. My husband, like when you heard me scream at some point and the thing went black, my husband hadn’t died. It looked like that when you look at the movie. But he has those fainting spells. Well, they’re not really fainting spells. It’s like narcolepsy. He falls asleep on his feet, but it’s due to another side of his mental illness. When anxiety goes high, he starts passing out. And that was at the beginning where we weren’t quite sure what was going on. Now we know a little bit more. And the dog could tell us up to 10 minutes, 15 minutes sometimes, ahead of time, that he was going to have a spell. It’s pretty amazing.



Loreen Pindera: A last word to you, Rebecca. Is there anything you’d like to add?



Rebecca Heinisch: I would just like to say that this film, this documentary, is so powerful. And I’m just so grateful and thankful that you’ve made this documentary, Megan.



Von Allan: Yeah.



Loreen Pindera: Yes. Megan, maybe you could just tell us what life the film has now? Where does it go from here?



Megan Durnford: I don’t necessarily know the answer to that. We’re waiting to hear back from… Well, there’s a conference in Oslo in May that is considering it. There’s various film festivals. There’s plenty of community screenings. Actually, apparently in October it will be screened in Australia, the community screening. So, it’s just getting going.



Loreen Pindera: Oh, is it going to be translated? There you go.



Megan Durnford: There is a French version.



Loreen Pindera: And I think you all know that you can find it on CBC online. If anybody doesn’t know how to find it, I think actually all you have to do is look up cbc.ca and the name of the film and you’ll come straight to it. It’s very easy to find and it’s going to stay online for some time… I think forever, for a long time.



Ella Amir: So thank you very much, everyone. Thank you very much. I feel it was really a powerful and remarkable documentary. And I know that it will have… I’m sure that it will have life of its own, not only in Australia and New Zealand, but also here, because we really do hope that it will help us to put young carers on the map and this is certainly a good step forward. So thank you very much, and thank you very much, and see you next year.

2019 CBC Trailblazer Award



2019 CBC Trailblazer Award for Von Allan aka Eric Julien
It’s always a bit weird to be writing this, but here goes. I’m one of the winners of a 2019 CBC Trailblazer Award. With a trophy and everything! I have to admit to having mixed feelings about awards*, but it’s still pretty neat to have won one. And since this is the second award I’ve won for my art-related activities, it is another “arrow in the quiver,” especially given how hard it’s been to get to this point.


Hard?


Hell, yeah.


Art, as a career, is not the easiest thing in the world to make a “go” of, especially given the austerity-fueled times we live in. And it has taken me a long time, longer than I would have liked, to reach the point that my art is, for lack of a better word, “professional.” ‘Course, one of the interesting things about art is what one means by “professional” can take on all kinds of different meanings. It really depends on who you are and what you like.


In my specific case, I knew I was pretty rough, but we really do learn by doing.


“Doing” also meant falling on my face. A lot. I’ve covered that in a piece I wrote called “On Getting Stronger” so I won’t cover that again here.


I think one of the interesting things about the Trailblazer Award is it really is recognition for the work I continue to do around my first graphic novel, the road to god knows... Who knew, when I first self-published it almost ten years ago, it would still be finding a life now? That’s in large part thanks to the documentary film I Am Still Your Child, written and directed by Megan Durnford, produced by Katarina Soukup and the fine folks at Catbird Productions, and supported by all the creative folks behind it (including “behind the scenes” people like Alex Margineanu, Howard Goldberg, Kathy Sperberg, Stéphanie Couillard, and Sara Morley, as well as folks like Jessy Bokser, Sarah Leavens, and Marie Leavens who I shared screen time with). The film gave a “second life,” so to speak, to the graphic novel and has led to speaking engagements, panel discussions, Skype conversations, and on and on.


Judith Lee Julien and me
And, more concretely, it’s given me an opportunity to talk about my mom. Not just her battle with schizophrenia, but also the poverty we battled combined with the lack of social programs to help her. To talk about the immense courage she showed (courage I’ve really only became truly aware of as an adult) while she fought a lonely and often terrifying battle to navigate a truly unforgiving health care and social aid system. And what it was like to grow up with her, for both good and ill.


It’s funny; my mom died pretty young, at 48. And I’m slowly but surely approaching that age myself. In fact, I’ve now lived longer without her in my life than I did with her (she died when I was 20, and I’m now well-past 40 myself). But the memory of her stays with me still. That’s partially because I loved her, of course, but also because I still find, to this day, how unfair her situation was. And the fact that it never had to be that way. Despite all of the “by your own bootstraps” nonsense we live in (you know, that idea that any failure, let alone any health issue, is a sign of personal rather than societal failure), what happened to my mom was grossly unfair. What is heartbreaking to me is that the unfairness she experienced is experienced by so many other people right to this very day.


Yeah, yeah, awareness about mental health and mental illness is better. There’s more open and frank discussion around it. Sure. But poverty has not gone away. The lack of social support really hasn’t changed. Welfare rates for anyone (let alone single moms) have, if anything, gotten much worse. We can talk about “resilience” and “perseverance” as much as we’d like. We can even point to individuals who’ve managed to do just that, but what about those who can’t? There’s still a chronic lack of systemic support. There’s still a culture that desperately needs healing (don’t believe me? Look at the suicides that are still occurring in the wake of the Parkland shooting).


I’m pleased to do what I can to help. And I’m proud, damn proud, to talk about my mom. To help put a face on what otherwise might be simple dry statistics. To use my art, as best I can, to show what some of this is like. But it’s hard not to escape the idea that in a very real way, the 2019 Trailblazer Award should not have gone to me.


It really should have gone to my mom.


She died in 1994, alone and isolated. I had moved out some months before because I had to, for my own sanity and self-esteem.


What I try to stress to people, though, is that she had hopes and dreams. Things she still wanted to accomplish. Who knows what she might have done if she had managed to beat a truly vile disease and get healthier? She’d be 73 right now, probably feisty as all get out, and probably telling her own story to people, trailblazing change.


I don’t doubt that for a second. But it was not to be.

Judith Lee Julien, age 14
I placed, a long time ago, the grief along with the disappointment of what could have been. It is what it is and it happened a long time ago. But other people, right now, are going through similar things. And even if mental illness is not a part of it, there is still crushing poverty, a cold and often hostile health and social services system, kids going hungry, massive personal debts, and horrible unhappiness. All the celebratory economic statistics in the world doesn’t change that. There is a lack of solidarity with each other, not just with our fellow citizens but a lack of solidarity and fellowship with people around the globe (don’t believe me? Look at all the hate against immigrants and refugees we’re seeing now).


We have to overcome this.


And what about me? Well, I continue to grow and get stronger, especially with my art (both visual art and my writing, too). And with my art I try to not just focus on the past (though always to honour it), but to move forward with new stories and new adventures. One of the things about falling in love with art, with comics, and with visual storytelling, is that the growing and learning never stops.


Using comics to tell stories has been, I think, the most rewarding thing I’ve done as an adult. And I can still remember where I was when the journey started to where I am now. Harder than hell, yeah, but rewarding all the same.


I can’t wait to see what happens next.


* The late Harlan Ellison, back on the “Awards” episode of the TVOntario program PRISONERS OF GRAVITY said it best: “I think awards are bullshit. I think awards are detrimental to the writers…You win a Hugo, you win a Nebula, you win a Horror Writer’s Award, you win an Edgar, I’ve won all of them in multiples for god’s sake. What you’re getting are popularity awards. If you were a good boy that year. If you were published in the right place. If the right people read it. If stories that were five times better than yours were published in places no one saw them. Then you get an award. They’re meaningless.


They had value, years ago, as being, you know, you could put them on a cover of a paperback. “Hugo Award Winner.” Well, every book you pick up now is a Hugo Award Winner or Hugo Award Nominee. Or someone thought this should have won a Hugo. They don’t mean squat.


The minute you start thinking that you’ve won an award because you’re a terrific writer, you’re dead.”


Always good to keep in mind, right?


Postscript


Here's the CBC Video Interview with me about the Trailblazer Award:


Other Links

Interview with True North Country Comics Podcast


I recently did a Skype interview with the fantastic John Swinimer, host of the True North Country Comics Podcast. John and I covered a range of subjects, including my recent comics work (WOLF'S HEAD!) as well as the documentary film I'm a participant in (I AM STILL YOUR CHILD). We also talked about mental health and mental illness in general and how my mom struggled with schizophrenia, a pretty vile disease.

I love talking comics and creativity and this interview has quite a bit about that, too! There is something about storytelling, and comic book storytelling in particular, that I find exciting. I think the visual language of comics is endlessly fascinating, something I hope that I bring to my own work, not to mention how comics unites words and illustrations in a really neat way.

John was a great host and hopefully I did a good job as a guest. Give it a listen, eh? The MP3 for the podcast can be found at the links above or directly at https://truenorthcountrycomics.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/Von-Allan-Jan-2019.mp3

CBC Montreal interview with Von Allan on Homerun (September 27, 2018)


Just prior to the September 27, 2018 screening of the documentary film I AM STILL YOUR CHILD in Montreal as part of the 2018 Low-Beer Memorial Lecture (photos from the event are here), I scampered over to CBC Montreal to do an interview with Sue Smith on the drive home show "Homerun." And thanks to the CBC's Loreen Pindera, I now have an audio copy of the interview I can share!

You can listen to the interview by clicking here or by clicking play on the old timey audio player below. In addition, a lightly edited transcript is provided below.


Lightly Edited Transcript

Sue Smith: You know, we often talk about getting resources for people struggling with a mental illness. But what we don’t hear about are the children who act as caregivers for their own parents who live with a mental illness. Montreal filmmaker Megan Durnford saw this as a problem. So she made a documentary featuring three people who grew up as child caregivers.



Audio excerpt from the documentary film “I Am Still Your Child”: It can be a lot with mom and school, but like, thankfully she’s not super needy right now and I help her when I’m able to. You know, if something happened with her, I don’t care about my essay. Like, I’m going to do whatever she needs me to do because her mental health is more important than my grade for this class.



Sue Smith: That’s the voice of Jessie Bokser, one of three people featured in the documentary, “I Am Still Your Child.” Von Allan is also in the film. Von’s mother struggled with schizophrenia. She died more than 20 years ago. And Von joins me in the studio. Thanks for coming in, Von.



Von Allan: Oh, you’re very welcome. Hi.



Sue Smith: Hi. So I just came from the film. I’ve just finished watching it. It’s pretty emotional.



Von Allan: Yeah.



Sue Smith: So tell me a little bit about your story. What was it like growing up with a mother with schizophrenia?



Von Allan: It was tough. My mom had problems even before I was born, I’ve subsequently found out. So she was ‘mom’ when I was a little kid. And it was only as I got older, probably around nine, maybe even ten, that her problems — I think her ability to hide her problems from me diminished. And I was an only child. It was just me and my mom. And then her ability to want to talk to me more about it — to be more open about it — also increased.



But at the same time, her situation was getting tougher. She was having nervous breakdowns and [would be] hospitalized for a while. And so she would sometimes disappear for a few days, a few weeks. And then she’d be back and she’d be ‘mom.’ In hindsight, it was a more disruptive upbringing. At the time, I knew we were poor. I knew we were struggling. I didn’t know that things were, quote unquote, ‘wrong’ with my mom, until I became an early teenager. And I sort of realized ‘she’s not really like other moms.’ She’s smart. She’s capable. And then sometimes she’s not. So it was a unique upbringing. And there wasn’t anybody to talk to about it either.



Sue Smith: No. And you have this line that you say in the film that just came back to me as something like poverty, bankruptcy, schizophrenia, all three together. That was rough. I mean, that’s rough.



Von Allan: Yeah. Yeah. Well, I mean, I’ve particularly as an adult, I get sometimes stunned by the courage it must have taken my mom to be trying to raise a kid, having these issues, and then — because we declared bankruptcy around when I was 12 or 13 and then we were on welfare in Ontario — she was trying to navigate a somewhat dysfunctional social service system then. And in many ways, it’s gotten much worse now. And I don’t know how she did it. And she did it without an ombudsman or an advocate. I was too young. There wasn’t anybody else. My mom and dad split when I was very, very young.



Sue Smith: Although you talk about the spaghetti incident in the film as a time when you did call your dad in. So it does seem like maybe once in a while he was able to help you.



Von Allan: Yeah, I think I was lucky for some of that stuff is my dad was in my life. I wasn’t living with him, but he was in my life. And through sort of the separation agreement, I would see him fairly regularly. So he was somebody there that I could, when things got really bad, between when my mom was hospitalized, I could stay with. So I wasn’t being, you know, put into foster care.



Sue Smith: Well, that’s what I was going to say. It’s kind of remarkable that your mother was able to keep you.



Von Allan: And I really wonder about that. Again, it’s one of those things where, as a kid, I have memories of social workers coming into our house and our house was pretty crappy. Our apartment was pretty crappy. And I know I was embarrassed by it a lot. But these — strangers from my point of view — would come in and sort of evaluate. And I have no idea to this day; was it close that somebody was like, “this kid should be somewhere else?” Or was it not? I have no idea. It’s those things that — particularly when you’re a little kid or even just a kid — you don’t have the context unless somebody really sits you down and talks to you about it. And for the most part… I mean, my mom was pretty open about some of what she was going through, again, into my teen years. But things like that, I had no idea.



Sue Smith: Now, you’re a graphic artist and you wrote a book about it, which is featured in the film, “the road to god knows…”. How did that or did that help you sort of somehow process some of this stuff? Because this is like really tough stuff for a nine-year-old, a 12-year-old. Even as an adult, it must be hard to process.



Von Allan: Yeah, well, it was certainly tough to kind of revisit it. But in a way, particularly after my mom died and I sort of set out on drawing and what have you, I knew for was my first book — particularly for a first story — I wanted to do something that was really personal to me. And at that time, looking around, there wasn’t anything else like that out there. So I thought this might be the kind of story that’s worth telling.



It’s fictionalized. So the main character is a girl named Marie, not me. So it’s sort of a fictionalized biography or autobiography, but that allowed me to play with a bit of time and compress certain events. But yeah, for the most part, all of it is true, except for me fictionalizing some of my friends a little bit.



Sue Smith: Yeah, of course. That’s why they’re still your friends, probably. So one of the things that’s really brought up a few times in the film is how when you have a parent who struggles with mental health issues, that affects your own mental health as a child. How has that affected your own mental health or even just worrying about your own mental health?



Von Allan: Yeah, I think worrying. I’ve probably been lucky, and it’s one of those things especially with schizophrenia, as more data comes out, it seems to be more of a genetic disease than anything else. So I remember, particularly in my 20s, kind of wondering, because my recollections of my mom were lots of moments; like days, weeks, months of lucidity, and then ups and downs, really just bumpy and unpredictable. So very, very strange.



And also her sense of reality, particularly with that disease, was very, very tough. Certainly things I knew she told me didn’t happen, but then there were other allegations, particularly sexual abuse and stuff, that may have happened and may not have happened. It’s impossible to disentangle. And in that case, everybody is dead. So there’s just no way to know. And so for myself, particularly at that time, it was tough and I worried a bit about it.



But as you get older and you kind of navigate your own life and what have you, it’s okay. So certainly there are… Because with my mom, there’s a difference between being unhappy — being discouraged by events — and being devastated by them. And I have memories of my mom not being able to get out of bed. Like she just… I’d get up to go to school, get my own breakfast, off I go, come home, and she’d still be in bed. And it’s just there were… she had anxiety issues on top of everything else. And then when you throw in depression, she also had migraines. And then I think it’s important to say, too, is that her physical health — particularly into her 40s, and she died at 48; she died very young — that also started to play an increasing role in all of the difficulties. So she’s not only dealing with a mental illness and trying to navigate a social system and get the help that she needs. And she was able to do some of that. But then her nutrition was awful. She gained a lot of weight. I have vivid memories of… She lost teeth. So, she couldn’t smile properly anymore. So it was just… you throw all of this stuff together and it sort of means that your sense of dignity — your sense of self-esteem — really diminishes. And you’re getting hit from what you’re struggling with, and then you’re getting hit from an outside, all these other events that are happening around you, and particularly poverty. It’s really tough.



Sue Smith: I mean, all these things that you’re talking about — poverty, mental illness, and the kind of, you know, letting yourself go, fearing your own mental illness — these are all really taboo subjects. And you are speaking about them super openly. Why is it important? Why did you decide to do this? What do you want people to know?



Von Allan: I think the bottom line is that a mental illness — any mental illness — is just that. It’s an illness. It’s a disease. It’s like cancer. And the people who have it, it’s not because they screwed up. It’s not that they’ve made personal decisions and they haven’t taken personal responsibility for their actions. It’s dumb luck. And it’s bad luck. And I think the worst thing that people can do is be scared of it. And in a way, because of the way I grew up…



Sue Smith: But it is scary.



Von Allan: It is scary, but a lot of things are scary. A lot of diseases, a lot of things that go wrong with our bodies, in just the physical sense, can be really scary, can be really difficult. But it didn’t mean my mom was any less loving. It didn’t mean she was any less compassionate or empathic or anything. She was, in her own way, a remarkable human being. And I still find to this day the thing I find most unfair about it is she died when I was 20. So I never got to know her as an adult. I came to art late. She never saw me draw. I’ve been married for 20 years. She never met my wife. This stuff is… All of these things are the costs that any illness, but mental illness, can extract on people, on human beings, on families. And it’s tough. And it’s not fair.



The big reason to get involved in the film and do the graphic novel is to help share her story. And to tell people, ‘yeah, there are scary moments.’ I’d be lying if my mom didn’t scare me at times. There were really terrifying things. The spaghetti incident is one, you know. She basically lost it and went crazy for a little while. And I don’t use that word lightly, but she scared the crap out of me when I was about 11 years old. And started smashing things and what have you. But that was a very small microcosm of what her entire situation was. And honestly, when you go through this, it gets less scary. So the first nervous breakdown, very scary. You know, the first episodes that she had — schizophrenic episodes — was very scary. The fifth, the sixth, less scary. It just is. You get more experienced with it. And at the same time, I think the lucky thing for me as a kid, I was getting older. So it got easier.



Sue Smith: It’s just a really compelling story, Von. And you tell it in a wonderful way here in person, but also in the film. Thank you so much for coming in.



Von Allan: You’re very welcome.



Sue Smith: My guest is Von Allan. He’s one of three people featured in the documentary “I Am Still Your Child.” There’s a free screening of the film tonight. It’s at Oscar Peterson Concert Hall at 7 o’clock. That’s at Concordia [University], at Loyola [Campus]. There’s going to be a panel discussion with the cast and crew. Our Loreen Pindera is leading that. And it’s online. It’s part of our ‘Absolutely Quebec’ film series here of CBC Montreal. And we will tweet out that link. It’s really excellent.

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